In the summer of 2019, Mom distressingly proclaimed “I have BLACK SPOTS ON MY BRAIN!” Dad clarified to family and friends that the “BLACK SPOTS” were the dying portions of her brain imaged from an MRI scan. Our family was puzzled by the diagnosis. Alzheimer’s at 47, how was that possible? Mom was a system engineer manager, a gymnastics star, and my number-one supporter. No cure, and no treatment for this insidious disease. My mom’s capabilities to work, drive, complete daily tasks, comprehend instructions, and maintain conversation began to fade away. It's hard to explain the heartbreak of missing someone who is still with you daily, yet continuously deteriorating. I was 13.
In September of 2023, we transitioned Mom into a full-time memory care facility. Although her physicality is thankfully untouched, her condition continues to deteriorate as she struggles to dress herself, has constant delusions, and increased agitation. Currently, I respond to the name “Carol,” mom’s middle sister. Our “conversations” fixate on the imaginary girl in the bathroom mirror or microwave reflection. The mirror girl alternates between a beloved friend and a home invader only stopped by my mom’s karate kicks. I understand the only support I can give to her now is through love and patience, but we can all make a difference through the Alzheimer’s Association.
This is my third year supporting the Alzheimer's Association, participating in the annual Walk to End and the Ride to End Alzheimer’s. In the fall, I will attend the University of South Carolina (why I’m now supporting the Columbia, SC Walk)! I’ve had the pleasure of working with other passionate advocates making a true impact in driving research and funds. The majority of us have been affected by dementia in some shape or form, through either a friend, family member, or role model. Although my mom ignited my passion to join the movement, my spark continues to burn through the urgent need to prevent future families from suffering from this horrific disease. Every contribution and volunteer brings us all a step closer to finally ending Alzheimer's.
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