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A story from our team leader:

As you may or may not know, my mom was diagnosed with dementia at the age of 66.

It is one of those diseases that promises you plenty of time to prepare, plenty of time to be ready, plenty of time to...I don't know, accept it. And yet, what started out as misplaced keys all of a sudden becomes the inability for simple conversations, dressing, or even sleeping. And you can't for the life of you figure out what happened to all that time you were promised.

It was the summer of 2017. I'd just been promoted to manager early in the year. I'd just got back from a week long yoga retreat in Maui. I'd just been to Chairman's club. I'd just spent two weeks with my dad at the Montreal Gran Prix and a week exploring Scotland. I just attended an amazing leadership training in San Francisco where my team took home the trophy.

And then on July 5th, a perfectly beautiful NYC summer day, I just got a phone call. “There's been an accident with your mom's partner, he's going to be in the hospital for a while and your mom can't stay here. If you're not able to pick her up by tomorrow we'll have to call adult protective services.”

I was on a flight to New Mexico the next morning to begin one of the most difficult months of my life.

My mom was my greatest champion. In high school she made sure I got to all my football practices, went to every game, and cheered all the way until the last buzzer. I could very well have been the worst football player in the history of high school football, but by the way she cheered you'd think I was the greatest!

She always found a way to support my dreams despite making a teacher's salary in New Mexico, which is almost laughable. I remember almost running out of money while traveling around Australia and New Zealand during my college year abroad. I told her I was going to cut the trip short and she said, “Oh no you don't, you experience this as though this is your only chance!” There was money in my bank account the next day.

She might have been the most accepting person in the world. She made a career of helping the kids who other teachers and society gave up on. She changed so many lives and hearts because she cared enough to do something when others didn't.

So there I was taking care of her. Doing a crappy job AND the best job I knew how to do. Dementia has a way of transforming a loved one. Making kindness into a scary kind of angry. Taking consistency and breaking it into million chaotic shards. Reaping frustration and irritation out of calmness.

And I wish I was just talking about my mom, the truth is that I could easily be describing myself over the course of that month. I won't go into all the details, but the story is filled with heart breaking moments and ones I will cherish forever.

My mom is now safe in a memory care facility. I thank God every day she remembers who I am, because I don't know how many more of those days I will have. I once heard that when someone has dementia they don't lose a part of themselves, that part has just snuck off to be with God a little early - I hope to truly believe that one day.

On October 27, 2018 We are going to Walk to End Alzheimer's for my mom, for the loved ones that are sent our way, and for the hope that one day soon no one will ever have to experience this horrible disease. I invite you to join my wife and I by joining us on the walk, in prayer/spirit, or in a donation to help us reach our goal of 25k

Schuyler, Deanna and the Salesforce Team

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Our Goal

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of Goal
$19,440 Raised
$50,000.00
39% Achieved

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Salesforce.org Matching Gifts COMPANY
$4,065
Schuyler & Deanna Matching June Donations
$3,590
Schuyler Kaye
$2,500
Robert Rockefeller
$1,000
Nicole Gallant
$500
Bruce and Karen Eshleman
$500
Sandy and Mike Black
$300
Michele Chapman
$250
Jacalyn
$250
Walter Family
LESLIE STRAUSS
$200
Owen McClave
$200
Kara Callaway
John Temple
$200
Shannon McGovern
Facebook Fundraiser
$150
Betsy L Borrow
Samantha Borrowstern, in memory of Bill Stern
$120
Keith McEwen
$120
Rich Rose
$120
Nick Partington
$120
Brian King
$120
Salesforce.org COMPANY
$120
Ryan Carrigan
$120
Nick Donahue
$120
Victor Kippes
$120
Anonymous
$120
Mike Hineline & Kaye Schuyler
$120
Gary Samuels
$120
Anonymous
$120
Betsy Borrow
Amanda Hamo
$120
Rohit M
$120
Andrea Sheahan
$120
Chris Peel
$100
Facebook Fundraiser
$100
Mick and Patricia Busby
$100
Vallet-Sandre Family
$100
Ryan and CC
$100
Andre Vallet-Sandre
$100
Colin Nanka
$100
- Salesforce.com Foundation COMPANY
$100
Anonymous
N. Mulay
The Lottermans
$100
Kathleen Ryan
$100
The Lotterman family
$100
Kristin Regan
Lauren Weissbrod
$100
Valerie Wolloch
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Salesforce.org Matching Gifts COMPANY
Schuyler & Deanna Matching June Donations
Schuyler Kaye
Robert Rockefeller
Nicole Gallant

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