David Dekker, in the words of his son, Thomas:
I have not spoken of it in public til now, but as you have always been my greatest of supporters and friends, I wanted you to be the first to hear. You may or may not know that I have spoken on multiple occasions of my greatest mentor, friend, idol, brother and father with glowing remarks and insatiable pride. The man that was David Dekker, my biggest inspiration and love in life, passed away on September 16.
As he suffered from Alzheimer's disease for the past ten years, his passing is both a joyful release of freedom for his all too electric spirit, and a tragic, horrific crush to my heart. But in this time of grief, I have witnessed the epiphany of life and death. I believe now, that nothing stops and nothing dies. He believed the same. There are those among us, in every person's life, even if we are unaware, that exist as a part of us. A part of our heart, mind, values and body. And I feel nothing but honor and privelage to have been molded by this eccentric, open minded, artistic, endlessly talented and wonderful man. I wish you all could have known him. I wish everyone could have known him for that matter. He truly, and I can say this with utmost certainty and gratitude, was the only person in my life who never once, not even slightly hurt me. He was a stroke of genius and an embrace of kindness all the way to the end.
I am still so greatful for the generous donation the Dekker Daily community made to the Alzheimer's foundation and research. I can't think, especially in retrosepct, of a more personally touching or thoughtful gift from such wonderful whacky people, most of whom I have never even had the pleasure of meeting.
The link below leads to an article that was in a Las Vegas paper, where my father lived and passed. Hopefully, it can shine a little more light than I can compose here, on the man who made me produce any of the work I have taken part in that you have enjoyed.
All my love and embraces to each and everyone of you.
Spoonfuls,
David's Son
http://www.viewnews.com/2010/VIEW-Nov-02-Tue-2010/Henderson/39445619.html
Dekker Daily Annual Alzheimer's Fundraiser for Thomas's birthday
Each year for the past 3 years, we at Dekker Daily have hosted this fundraiser for Thomas's birthday in honor of his father, David Dekker, who has suffered from Alzheimer's.
For more information on Dekker Daily, please visit our site at http://dekker-daily.com/
For more information on Thomas's prize drawing for those who donated, go here: http://dekker-daily.com/wordpress/2011/12/26/signal-boost-thomas-and-dekker-dailys-big-birthday-fundraising-drive/
To those who have already donated ... THANK YOU!
For those who would like to share your birthday wishes for Thomas, please sign the Guest Book below.
Thank you!
Guest Book
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Sarah E
Sat, Dec 15, 2012
Thomas, you're an amazing and inspiring person and I love that you do this each year. And as usual, I will donate to Alzheimers UK and encourage my readers to as well, not just in memory of your father and celebration of your birthday but for my grandmother too, who we also lost to complications from a long suffering with AD. Always, S.
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Jason
Thu, Dec 29, 2011
Thomas:
Thanks to you and the folks at Dekker Daily for rallying people and raising funds for and awareness of this cause. It's a great thing you're doing, and I'm happy to support it. Have a wonderful birthday, Mister! Congratulations on your existence. I'm glad you're around! Much love from Wyo, -Jason |
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Bill Wildman
Thu, Dec 29, 2011
Happy birthday thomas, I live in Jackson, OH and I'm a big fan of yours and tscc. I have no money to donate but I think charity is awesome. I donate my time to kawanis, Elk's, and heart assoc. My mother has parkensen's disease and I wish they would find a cure but that takes money. Sorry I couldn't donate but happy birthday. Bill Wildman
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Natalie
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
So right now, I'm sitting on the beach, and finally decided to send you an official birthday message! Hey Thomas! First off, I'd like to wish you a happy 24th birthday! You definitely deserve a fantastic day, and I hope that it has been truly epic! I remember watching the secret circle for the first time, wondering who this awesome actor was who magically made water float. I soon watched many of your other works, which I greatly enjoyed, and then wondered across to a website called Dekker Daily, weeks away from your birthday. From here, I read your message and about your father, and knew that if I donated, I could make a difference to somebody's life. I donated today, to a fund in Australia, and I've never felt so good. So, thank you for being such an inspiration, and now I know my paycheck from this week has gone into something worthy. Thanks for everything Thomas and enjoy the rest of your day!
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Amanda
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
Happy Birthday Thomas
He sounds like a wonderful man, you were blessed to know him and he will always be with you in your heart and memories. My father is here with me. What a wonderful way to remember him and help others through this. Hugs and love to you at this difficult time. amandafclark xxx |
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K
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
Hapy birthday Thomas! What a wonderful way to celebrate your birthday. It doesn't always occur to me to donate to worthy causes like this one, but I think this is going to be a great yearly tradition for all of your fans.
I'm a researcher, though not directly involved in Alzheimer's research, but I do enjoy being part of the scientific community. We are working hard! |
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Ivez Budlong
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
Happy Birthday!!!
God bless you always... I admire you being such a great son with a very good soul. Never will I regret knowing you and making you an inspiration. May you continue spreading the greatness in you. Good luck to your endeavor and wish you success in life. CHEERS!!!! Ives Philippines |
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Valeria
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
Hi Thomas! Enjoy a lot with your family and friends! The best wishes from Venezuela. I gotta say i get obssesed with you: I spent all the day singing Psyanotic, and i was all the day watching videos of some of your movies. I hope we will get the cure to this horrible disease soon. I am praying for you to get the best roles in the best movies ever, because yo deserve it. And remember, if you want to come to Venezuela one day, just call me :).
Happy New Year, greetings and kisses. Lots of love, Valeria. |
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Andrea Eastman
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
Ello there!
I wanted to thank you for always being someone that I can always look up to. I admire your many talents and I always look forward to what you'll do next. I wanted to thank you again for writing the song Lava Life. The song has brought me a lot of smiles, especially during hard times, as well as numerous amounts of creative inspiration. Years from now I'll be able to look at my Lava Life tattoo and think back on all the memories that are behind the tattoo as well as the talented man who wrote the song. You are a truly wonderful human being and I wish you the absolute best of the years to come. Happy Birthday, Thomas! I hope your special day is wickedly awesome and filled with memories. -Andrea |
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Cristelle Gaches
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
Hey Thomas,
There's so many things I'd like to say to you, but I'll try and make it short. It seems like 2011 has been an amazing year for you, professionally, and I couldn't be more proud of you. I don't know what 2012 might bring you but I do hope it will be just as great as the past few months. I'm looking forward to see you in whatever your future projects might be, cause even if it's a real pain here in France not to be able to see your films as soon as it's out, I'm always excited and emotional when I finally get a chance to see you on my screen. I wish you the happiest birthday you can get, you're turning 24, no big deal, I've been there and it's pretty comfy you'll see! May your birthday be perfect, and all your dreams come true cause you're not just a brilliant actor, you seem to be an amazing human being as well. I hope someday I'll get a chance to meet you and tell you all this, but for now... Happy Birthday, make sure to make this day unforgetable and keep being your amazing self. Lot of love from France, Thanks for everything, Cristelle. |
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Eleonora spell book
Wed, Dec 28, 2011
You seems really a great person as well as a very talented actor. Your devotion is onorable and I'm very sorry for your father. I didn't know you before your part as Adam Conat in my favorite show The Secret Circle but I'm happy that you got the role!
I wish you a beautiful birhday day and a lucky new year full of happiness and satisfactions! Love from a your italian fan! |
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Karen Guerrero
Tue, Dec 27, 2011
Hey Dekker
happy birthday! hope to have a really, really wonderful day. I wish you the best today and always. The coming year will be much better than this one. Remember this, he's in a better place right now, but he's loving you and watching you wherever you are... then is better if you're a good boy ;) Love ya! Thomas Dekker Fans Facebook |
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Nikki Hamilton
Tue, Dec 27, 2011
I hope you have a very blessed birthday! My great-grandmother suffered from Alzheimer's and passed away 11 years ago.
I made a donation to http://www.alzheimer.ca/ to honour both her and your father. Have an awesome New Year! |
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Sister Morticia
Tue, Dec 27, 2011
Wishing you a very happy, happy birthday and all good wishes for an amazing year ahead.
My mother also has Alzheimers and it is a devastating disease to watch in someone that you know and love so much. It is frightening and heartbreaking for all concerned. I am sure that your father would be extremely proud of such a brilliant and thoughtful son; he taught you very well. Many birthday wishes. Kind regards. Morticia (UK) |
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Cherish gibson
Tue, Dec 27, 2011
Wishing u a very happy 24th birthday Thomas:) I'm one of your biggest Australian fans and I someday wish to meet u. You are a great guy and you deserve all the happiness in the world. May your day be full of love, joy and happiness my friend. Good luck with all the adventures that await you!! Love forever and always your Aussie fan Cherish xx
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H.A. Zettergren
Tue, Dec 27, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! We don't know eachother, however from what you wrote about your father, I can tell with the grace and eloquence and unabashed love you felt for him you're one hell of a Guy! And trust me your one in a million! Which makes me like you and all the roles you play more enjoyable! I'm honored to be your fan. I've followed your career for awhile, and I'd bet your dad was proud, loud and happy as shiat to have such an unbelievable son. I'm truly sorry for your loss. So celebrate his life and your awesome gift. I'm grateful to be apart of this organization and your b-day bash! Peace, love and joy for the new year!!!!
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