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Why it’s important to say something if a relative exhibits signs of Alzheimer’s

June 7, 2019 at 7:00 p.m. EDT
Tatiana Lagos’s father had Alzheimer’s, but no one talked about it. He died in 2017, and she wishes she could have discussed it with him while he was still able. (Doug Kapustin/For The Washington Post)

When Tatiana Lagos’s father stopped driving, she didn’t think much of it at first.

“He’d say, ‘Hey, can you pick me up?’ ” Lagos recalled of her father, who was in his early 60s and had recently retired from a career in international law. “And he was leaning heavily on his wife for the smallest things,” such as scheduling a coffee date.